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Tips on How To Send Back a Bad Meal at a Restaurant

Oversalted gnocchi.

Oversalted gnocchi. Return it or deal with it?

You’re at a nice restaurant and discover that your entree is not up to snuff. Maybe it’s missing the goat cheese that was listed in its description on the menu, maybe it’s supposed to be a hot dish and it arrives cold. Do you a) complain to the server and ask the kitchen to remake it or b) keep quiet and power through it?

As my foodie friends can attest, once you get in the habit of dining out a lot, you develop standards and then it just gets hard to suffer through a bad meal. We gotta say something. I’m not saying to complain just because you ended up ordering something you didn’t like, but rather if the dish is basically inedible.

“But what if the kitchen spits in my food because I complain?” you ask. I know, there was a time when I feared that, too, but then realized that the kitchen does not take these things personally and if you handle the situation right then chances are your redone dish will remain spittle free.

Mercantile refrigerated cases

Mercantile refrigerated cases.

I found this out with blogger friends Esther, Lindsay and Maya at our dinner at The Mercantile in Hollywood. We were using of our Blackboard Eats code to score the $20 three-course prix fixe dinner.

Our first course, the endive salad with dates, watercress, smoked almonds and warm goat cheese was divine. Even though it was pretty salty it was balanced with the sweetness of the dates, the tang of the goat cheese, and the freshness of the endive and watercress.

However, our next course of gnocchi with mushrooms, peas and parmesan didn’t fair as well with all the salt. Since there was nothing to balance out that very pucker-inducing seasoning, each bite just got more and more salty. I could feel kidney stones developing, heh. “Maybe they want us to drink more wine,” I joked. But the girls weren’t having it. Finally Esther flagged down the server. We calmly and very nicely explained how we thought the dish was unusually salty. “It tastes like it has potential to be good but the salt just ruins it,” we pleaded our case to her.

She listened carefully with nary a trace of attitude or defensiveness and then asked if she could take one of our dishes, since we had all four ordered the gnocchi, and have the chef sample it. After a short while she came back to tell us that Executive Chef Kris Morningstar said he’d redo our dishes. So nice!

Well, turned out he didn’t after all but the “managing chef” did. “Now it seems like he undersalted it,” Lindsay said. I was about to agree because it seemed so after tasting the really salty gnocchi, but then I continued to pop the delicate pillows of gnocchi in my mouth and savor the mushrooms. No, it was much better. You could actually taste everything now. In the salad that saltiness was fine but here it had nothing to play with. There was no sauce in this dish, no greens.

Caramel corn and vanilla bourbon ice cream.

Caramel corn and vanilla bourbon ice cream.

After scarfing down our entree we were relieved that we took a stand instead of just silently suffering through the meal and perhaps complaining about it in a blog later.

Bonus was that apparently Mercantile was so sorry that we were initially unhappy with our meal that they only charged us for two of our prix fixe dinners. Of course they didn’t have to do that but it was so nice that they did.

I used the extra money I saved to purchase an extra scoop of ice cream ($3) for dessert and a pint of vanilla bourbon ice cream ($7) to go, which by the way was sooo bourbony and delicious that I felt like I was cheating on my booze fast.

So what do you do when you’re not happy with your meal? Here are some tips. If you’ve got some of your own, feel free to voice them in the comments:

1) Don’t eat more than a quarter of your dish before you complain to the server. If you eat over that amount, you’re already committed to that dish. Let the server know asap that something’s wrong with your dish.

2) Be nice to your server, it’s not their fault after all. Tell them in a very calm and nonaccusatory way why you are not happy with your meal. The more specific you are the better since they will be able to address your issues more easily.

3) Do not act like you’re entitled to anything more than your dish getting redone. Don’t ask for a free dessert or a comped meal. If you don’t like your dish and they offer to redo it, that’s pretty fair.

4) Thank your server for taking care of this matter for you.

5) Be patient waiting for your dish, part II. If you want it done right, waiting for it is a small price to pay.

Now, we were lucky that our server at The Mercantile was very accommodating and friendly. Really great customer service in this instance. At other restaurants, that might not always be the case unfortunately.

At Capitol City in Hollywood when I had sent back a cocktail because it had more St. Germaine than Maker’s, my server came back with a drink that simply had a shot of Maker’s added which completely ruined the drink. But all one can do is be diplomatic. And if you still get bad service, i.e. the server is rude or refuses to remove the item from the bill even when the issue isn’t fixed, reflect that in the tip.

For more suggestions, check out this handy “foodie flick” about “How To Send Food Back at a Restaurant” on Slashfood.

The Mercantile
6600 West Sunset Boulevard
Hollywood, California 90028 (map)
(323) 962-8202

This Weekend: $4 Maker’s Happy Hour, More Bloggers Helping Haiti

Lots going on this weekend. And no I’m not talking football. I’m talking good-hearted bloggers, speed dating with derby girls and oh, football.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Maker’s Mark $4 Happy Hour at Checkers Downtown
I’m so bummed I have to miss this. Of course this would be on the same day as my boozy tweetup. In any case, enjoy this awesome-sounding happy hour with $4 Maker’s Mark drinks like the Maker’s Peach Cobbler with Dubonnet Red, peach puree and cinnamon and the Ginger Rogers (not the gin one) with mango nectar, lime juice and ginger beer. OMG and my fave: a Maker’s Manhattan. All for only $4 each from 4 to 8pm! There will also be $4 plates, i.e. grilled Monte Cristo sandwich and yellowtail and mango sashimi.

  • 4-8pm. Checkers Downtown, Checkers Downtown, 535 S. Grand Avenue, Downtown (map). (213) 624-0000.

Friday, February 5

Bid and Eat for Haiti: Online Foodie Auction
Food blogger Fiona aka Gourmet Pigs is launching a fab online auction where peeps can bid on foodie faves like an autographed copy of Chef Ludo’s Crave, a home brewing kit from Intelligentsia and a slew of gift cards from popular restaurants around town. The best part is that all proceeds will go to benefit CHF International and Operation USA for their Haiti relief efforts. Happy bidding!


Date a Derby Dame

Are you the bravest man alive? Well, then you should have no trouble trying your best pickup lines during this speed dating event with…wait for it…OC Roller Girls. Yup, you only have 5 minutes so better make it good. At the end of the night, they’ll put together all the mutual matches. Good luck. You’ll need it.

  • 8pm. $5 (event is free to spectators). Suds Sports Grill, 5932 Warner Avenue, Huntington Beach (map). RSVP/info DateDerbyDame@gmail.com.

Saturday, February 6

Belmont Shore’s 6th Annual Chocolate Festival
Enjoy chocolate in all its glorious forms at this festival. Belmont Shore participants include Frosted Cupcakery, La Creperie and BJ’s Pizza (?) to name but a few. If you’re still cuckoo for cocoa, participate in the chocolate cream pie eating contest 3-4pm.

  • 1-4pm. 2nd Street (between Claremont and Park Avenue), Long Beach (map).

Haitians Libations at Vertical Wine Bistro
Aww, more bloggers doing good for Haitian relief. It’s Fiona again but this time with bloggers RumDood and Mattatouille. They’ve created an exclusive cocktail menu and will be serving up the libations at Vertical Wine Bistro from 10pm to close. They’ve got impeccable taste so the drinks are sure to be awesome. 50% of all profits will benefit Artists for Peace and Justice, a non-profit that delivers supplies to Haiti.

  • 10pm-2am. Vertical Wine Bistro, 70 N Raymond Avenue, Pasadena (map). (626) 795-3999.

Sunday, February 7

For Super Bowl Happenings, I defer to estarLA for her extensive roundup.

LA Weekly’s 2009 Web Awards Party at Bardot

I scored an invite to the most exclusive party I’ve ever had the privilege to be invited to. So exclusive that I basically had to win an award (or two) to get in. Yup, it was LA Weekly’s 2009 Web Awards party at Bardot in Hollywood. And because the VIP venue in the Avalon has limited space the invite-only list was tight. There were some Tweeps who managed to win tickets via LA Weekly’s Twitter as well as the plus ones but mostly it was the bloggerati partying down.

Since most everyone in the blogosphere is more apt to recognize screen names and avatars than actual faces, people were mingling. I, on the other hand, being of the shy variety stuck to my booth closest to the awards table. Located in the open-air courtyard of the club that was choked with cigarette smoke we could hear the hail pelting down on the tin-sounding roof. Here, I had a great view of the awards and the slideshow displaying the winners in each category, easy access to the open bar as well as to the seemingly neverending line of servers who were passing out Thai chicken satay and mini sliders. My blogger buddies estarLA, Lindsay and Zach of Best News Blog winner LAist, FauxLAHipster and LetMeEatCake joined me.

Later when feeling adventurous and in need of a drink, I was able to run into other LA Weekly winners — Laurie Percival (Best Tech Blog lalawag), Alana Joy (Best Most Shameless Self-Promoter), and the fun dudes from The Streets Are Calling (Best Low-Brow Art Blog). It was the coolest bunch of geeks I’ve ever had the honor of meeting. Didn’t get to meet Slash (Best MySpace Music Page), even though I thought I saw him and then dismissed him with a “Nah, couldn’t be him.”

Unfortunately, we weren’t allowed to take our beautiful gold floppy disk plaques home this night since to remove one would apparently initiate a dominoes effect that would prove devastating to the glass-encased awards. However, the more daring among us managed to sneak their own away during the rare occasion that the table was left unguarded. Dammit! I should have done that. But you know, since I had two, that proved more difficult. Heh.

“We’re going to do it like the Oscars,” said Erin Broadley, LA Weekly’s Web editor. “We’ll have you pose with the awards and then get them to you later.” “M’Okayyyy,” I pouted. I was kinda hoping to bring them home so that I could cuddle with them later. But then I got over it and just enjoyed the rest of the party.

On a regular night, I can see Bardot being a bit too VIP schmancy for me but on this night I actually fit in that category. Huzzah!

The Tar Pit: Swanky Times Are Here Again

Jamaican Firefly

Jamaican Firefly

Deco Booths

We were going to crash the Tar Pit’s press party no matter what. It was essentially a sneaky peek of the brand-new La Brea Avenue bar by famed mixologist Audrey Saunders (Pegu Club, NYC) and chef Mark Peel and Jay Perrin (Campanile). And this would be a hot ticket as press was swirling the Interwebs from the New York Times to L.A. blogs weeks before.

We don’t need no steenkin’ invite! Me and blogger friends H.C., Esther and Maya first heard hint of this elusive party on Eater LA and seriously considered just showing up at the door, velvet rope be damned. But then it turned out that 1) the anticipated party date moved and 2) H.C. ended up scoring an invite anyway and then forwarded it on to us. Woo hoo!

Still there was the little matter of rsvping and getting a confirmation. Fortunately we were all able to secure that. Turned out that wouldn’t have mattered anyway since they weren’t even checking names at the door!

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The Edison’s Repeal Day Skating Party: Facing Fears, Santa & Holiday Cocktails on Ice

Esther videos Shelley aka fauxlahipster and my roommate Kristina around the rink.

Aidan Demarest, The Edison’s director of beverages, has taken it upon himself to bring Christmas to downtown Los Angeles. Our city doesn’t get much if any snow and Angelenos track the seasons by what the local weatherman reports about the rest of the nation, so Aidan decided to celebrate the 76th anniversary of Repeal Day and the holidays like they do back at his hometown of Boston, with a good old-fashioned ice skating party.

Shelley and Esther showing how it's done.

Last Saturday night the well-attended shindig kicked off at the Pershing Square ice rink. The Edison bartenders served up hot chocolate garnished with candy canes and mini marshmallows. A couple of us thought ahead to bring a little something-something in a concealed hipflask so we could add a little nip to the cocoa. Mmm, Kahlua cocoa.

A table covered with more sugary offerings of ribbon candy and cupcakes as well as roasted chestnuts energized the ice skaters. The ribbon candy was pretty but also remained untouched — too much sugar! — while the roasted chestnuts offered a welcome alternative to all that sweetness. They were nice and warm but for some reason I just couldn’t get them in my mouth as they kept slipping out of my fingers. Maybe it was all that Kahlua.

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Eat My Blog Blogger Bake Sale a $3,000 Success

Chocolate Ganache for Sale

I had arrived too late! The Eat My Blog bake sale at Zeke’s Smokehouse in West Hollywood was scheduled to last from 10am to 4pm and I figured that if I got there around noon I’d still be able to get some of that bacon brownie goodness with bourbon caramel sauce that I kept reading about. But I was so wrong. By noon, most of everything was already sold out!

Cathy Dahn of Gastronomy Blog

With over 40 blogger bakers — including founder of Eat My Blog and author of Gastronomy Blog Cathy Danh, Teenage Glutster’s Javier Cabral, My Last Bite’s Jo Stougaard and Mattatouille’s Matthew Kang — and 600 baked goods that is quite a feat.

Thanks to great publicity and word of mouth via Twitter and blogs, there was never a quiet moment at the sale even though its location at the busy intersection of Santa Monica and La Brea wasn’t exactly the prime spot for foot traffic. It was, however, located right next door to a Beverages & More; bloggers do love their booze as was evident by all the after-bake-sale visits.

Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf was generous enough to provide a coffee/hot chocolate station and a barista for the occasion while Zeke’s Smokehouse not only donated its patio but some tasty brownies for the sale.

By the time I got to the event, pickings were slim but I was still able to find some instant favorites like Mattatouilles’s rich butterscotch budino, Pete Eatemall’s cinnamon chocolate mini bundt cake and Eating LA’s dark chocolate walnut cookies. But still so sad about the bacon brownies. Le sigh.

Barista, H.C., Esther, Sam Kim

In any case, the bake sale was a huge success with most everything selling out by 3pm and netting over $3,000 for the Los Angeles Foodbank!

“Eat My Blog was very excited to reach our fundraising goal and we hope to top it the next time around,” said Cathy. “Since this event was such a success we plan to do another one in Summer 2010.”

Score! Cathy had asked if I’d be interested in participating in next year’s sale but I told her I’d have to think about it. In any case I’m more an eater than a baker. Although, maybe I can make a bourbon-based something or other.

BTW, after the jump check out the recipe for Organic Spark’s tasty Maple Walnut Cake with Maple Cream Cheese Frosting.

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Utopias Primed: World’s Strongest Beer and Samuel Adams Beer Dinner at Animal

I was among several bloggers and media types lucky enough to be invited to sample the world’s strongest beer as verified by the Guinness Book of World Records. It’s Samuel Adams’ new limited-edition Utopias — an “extreme” beer which is released every odd year — and suffice it to say I was so looking forward to tasting it as well as finding out what a 27% ABV beer would do to me. On average beer usually has 4 or 5% ABV and my fave beer, St. Bernardus ABT 12 has 10%. So would that mean it would take one 2-ounce serving of Utopias to do to me what two and a half servings of St. Bernardus does? I’d find out soon enough.

The beer dinner was held at meat lovers’ paradise, Animal Restaurant, on Fairfax where Chefs Jon Shook and Vinny Dotolo created an appropriately hearty menu which was then paired with a variety of Samuel Adams beers. The Utopias was saved for the end of the meal.

During the dinner, Shook introduced each course detailing what about the designated beer inspired him to come up with each dish, while Sam Adams master brewer Bert Boyce went over the tasting notes of each brew.

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